Thursday, February 12, 2009

Why Parents are the Best Babysitters

There is a Chinese saying “that having a grandparent in the family is like having a gem in the house.” There is no perfect solution to any issue, one always have to weigh the pros and cons of every solution.It was a common fallacy that grandparents may not be very well-versed in hygiene when looking after the babies. The other very common complaint is that grandparents have a habit of feeding the grandchildren with unhealthy tit-bits. Parents also complain that grandparents are illiterate and may not be able to groom their children right from the start.While grandparents may not know how to operate the sterilizer, they know how to boil the bottles to sterilizer them. While grandparents may not be able to teach the children from a young age, they are able to teach them life lessons in many ways and they are best nannies you can ever ask for.1) Firstly, the love that the grandparents have for children is immense. All grandparents will always be happy to have a young one around and are usually quite tolerant towards them.2) Secondly, grandparents having gone through life experiences, and also able to share these experiences with them.3) Thirdly, the grandparents would be the best person to impart the culture and traditions of the family to the children. They are usually the ones who have the time and commitment to impart the traditions to the children.4) Most importantly, the child has a more rounded view of life living with their grandparents, and understanding the importance of planning for old age and taking care of their health now. This will help them to be more prepared when they grow old.5) A child who has the opportunity to practice patience and care towards the old folks now, will learn to be more empathetic and patient towards others. Such lessons in life are invaluable.Having said that, it would be helpful to just take note of a few things when your grandparent is your nanny.1) Ensure that the medication is kept away from the children.2) Ensure that there is a corner to put away the toys, so that the grandparent do not trip over the toys.3) Practise with the grandparent any new items that you get for the child, such as a stroller or a car seat.4) Advise the grandparent not to carry the child for long distance but to use a stroller to avoid injuries.5) Plan simple games or educational cds for the grandparents to play with the children if necessary.6) Never forget to say thank you to the grandparent as the love and patience they have for the children is immeasurable, and the trust that you have that your kids are in safe hands is worth more than anything else.

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